Matthew 25:1-13
The Parable of the Ten Virgins
Historical context of first century weddings in Israel:
Stage 1: Engagement – often arranged at a young age
Stage 2: Betrothal – public exchanging of vows that occurred as the couple approached marriageable age, accompanied with exchanging of gifts, could occur one year prior to the wedding feast, required a divorce to annul the betrothal
Stage 3: Wedding Feast – Officially consummated the marriage, couple would live together after this time, lasted several days to a week, bridegroom would be greeted by bridesmaids and guided to the wedding feast, often started at night
Source: And Jesus Said: A Handbook of the Parables of Jesus by William Barclay
Important Symbols:
- Bridegroom = Christ John 3:28-30, Revelation 21:2, 9, Ephesians 5:31-32,
- Ten Virgins = Visible covenantal people of God: Israel or the Church Matthew 24, Jeremiah 31:4, Amos 5:2, Matthew 28:18-20, Matthew 16:18, Romans 11:17-18, Romans 2:25-29,
- Wedding Feast – the union of Christ and his church in a final, universal feast Revelation 19:6-9
Important Lessons from the Parable
1. The Lord may delay in his second coming. 2 Peter 3:1-4, 8
2. Daily rhythms will continue while we wait the second coming of Christ. 1 Thessalonians 4:10-12
3. The form of religion and participation in a visible religious institution does not guarantee that one is a follower of Christ and ready for the return of Christ. 2 Corinthians 13:5, Revelation 3:1-4,
4. Self-improvement apart from the Spirit-filled work of God does not prepare one for the return of Christ. Colossians 2:20-23, Galatians 5:1-4,
5. Genuine, living faith cannot be transferred from one person to another. John 3:16-18, Romans 10:9-14,
6. Knowing Jesus is the only way to be ready for his coming. Matthew 24:11-13, Matthew 7:21-23,
How can we know if we truly know Jesus and are ready for his return? 1. Do I abide in Christ? John 15:4-6
2. Do I have an earnest desire to follow God’s commands? Am I grieved by my sin? John 14:15, Luke 9:26, 1 John 1:8-10
3. Does my life show evidence of spiritual fruit? Luke 6:43-45, Galatians 5:22-24,
4. Does my life show evidence of sanctification and spiritual growth over the long-term? Colossians 2:6-7, Philippians 1:6
5. Do I have a desire to see others follow Jesus? Am I taking steps based on that desire? Matthew 13:23
What Should We Do?
1. If you know that you do not know Jesus: Accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. Acts 2:37-38
2. If you are not sure if you know Jesus: Honestly test your faith. 2 Corinthians 13:5
3. If you are sure that you do know Jesus:
Rest in the assurance of salvation for those who believe. 1 John 5:13, Romans 8:31-39
Seek to know Christ more. Philippians 3:10-14